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The locked key to unlock your child's world !!!

The locked key to unlock your child's world :


Imagine you and your child are in a game where he is locked alone in a room....
and the key to unlock your child's room is given to you.................
But................
The Catch is....................
You are also locked in another room............
And
All you have is key to his room but you can't go and unlock him unless you are unlocked from your room.
So the puzzle is ..............................
How will you unlock yourself first and then go and put the keys in the lock of the room where the child is, and unlock him too......................
Can you relate this situation to your own real life.
What I mean to say is.....................
Though we say, the child with autism seems to be locked in his own world,

But what we miss is................................
At the time when parents get a diagnosis of their child even they seem to get locked in a different unseen and unrealized world of panic, anxiety and depression.
Before diagnosis, they had dreams of their own ,hobbies ,and desires. They cared about their own health, career and passion in life................................................................
But after diagnosis............ WHAT HAPPENS?

All this gets shattered ,as if now life is only about the word AUTISM.........................................
This word takes over everything in their life .
LIFE IS ALL ABOUT SURVIVING NOW AND HELPING THE CHILD TO COPE UP SOMEHOW,IN THE NEUROTYPICAL WORLD.

Whereas the child seems to be happy in HIS world..., he can see his parents struggling and unhappy in THEIR world.
Now remember the puzzle in the game, It's the same in real life..and it has the same solution....................
To unlock the child from his world ................
The parents need to come out of their world of despair and start living life as before ....as much as possible..........
Show the child, how beautiful is the world outside and how happy they are being there with him...... May be, If the world outside him, has immense Love, Happiness of all ,around him and opportunity for him to show his Competency,
then That might be the KEY.............................
The Question is ,
ARE WE READY TO SHOW THIS KIND OF WORLD TO HIM????"

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